Vow
I know you tell me how handsome I am now,
How wonderful I am.
How I am so fit and trim,
And perfect in every way.
And how that is only part of why and how you love me
As you pledge yourself to me forever.
I do know that others may say I am handsome
And wonderful,
And look trim and fit,
And that I just may be perfect,
Or not.
But today I don’t need you to pledge to me your love as I am today,
But how I will be should my face contort gently or not due to the expected ravages of age.
To pledge to loving the less wonderfulness of me
when we struggle together through who knows what, and hopefully maintain a balance
with the beauties of life and love we also experience.
Through years and years and years and years.
I need you to pledge that as my body changes, you still love me.
I need you to love not just the perfect me that you see today,
But the imperfect me that will meet the imperfect you,
Over and over and over and over again,
and together shine through the years.